{"id":3926,"date":"2026-08-03T22:59:13","date_gmt":"2026-08-04T02:59:13","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/darrenschalk.com\/?page_id=3926"},"modified":"2026-08-03T22:59:13","modified_gmt":"2026-08-04T02:59:13","slug":"discussion-questions-for-sermon-everything-you-thought-you-knew-about-success-is-wrong","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"http:\/\/darrenschalk.com\/?page_id=3926","title":{"rendered":"DISCUSSION QUESTIONS &#8211; for sermon: &#8220;Everything you thought you knew about success is wrong!&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Use the following questions to personally reflect on the message, take some time to journal, or use them in a group discussion based on this message.<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Paul describes his pre-conversion achievements as things he once considered great gains but later counted as loss for Christ&#8217;s sake &#8212; what accomplishments or identities in your own life might you be tempted to define your worth by, and how does that compare to the worth of knowing Christ?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The sermon draws a sharp contrast between culture&#8217;s definition of success and God&#8217;s definition &#8212; in what specific areas of your daily life do you find it most difficult to resist letting culture set the target you are aiming at?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Paul uses the phrase &#8216;but now&#8217; in Philippians 3:7 to mark a dramatic turning point in his life &#8212; have you experienced a &#8216;but now&#8217; moment with God, and if so, how did it fundamentally shift what you were living for?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The pastor warns against the danger of believing you have &#8216;arrived&#8217; spiritually, suggesting that pride and stagnation often follow &#8212; how do you personally guard against the subtle creeping in of spiritual complacency in your walk with Christ?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Paul says in Philippians 3:10 that he wants to know the fellowship of Christ&#8217;s sufferings and become like him in his death &#8212; why do you think so many Christians eagerly pursue resurrection power while avoiding the call to die to self, and what does that avoidance cost them?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The sermon uses the illustration of a toddler choosing a scooter over a new car to describe how immaturity distorts our perception of true value &#8212; in what ways might your current spiritual maturity level be affecting the choices and priorities you pursue each day?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The pastor makes a bold declaration that the success of the church will not be defined by cultural expectations but by God alone &#8212; do you believe the church you attend has allowed cultural metrics like attendance numbers and influence to shape its identity, and what would a truly God-defined church look like?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Paul presses on toward the goal described in Philippians 3:14, forgetting what is behind &#8212; what past failures, achievements, or identities do you struggle to leave behind, and how might holding onto them be preventing you from pressing forward?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The sermon points to the &#8216;surpassing worth&#8217; of knowing Christ as something that continually rises in value the more intimately you know him &#8212; how would you describe the current trajectory of your relationship with Christ, and is it deepening in value or has it leveled off?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Jesus declares in Matthew 5 that the blessed are the poor in spirit, the meek, and the persecuted &#8212; how does this vision of a blessed life challenge or even offend your current assumptions about what a successful and fulfilling Christian life should look like?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Use the following questions to personally reflect on the message, take some time to journal, or use them in a group discussion based on this message. 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