A Response to Rachel Held Evans – “Why Millennials Are Leaving The Church” p. 1

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I’m a fan of Rachel Held Evans. Mostly because she speaks her mind, even when she knows it won’t be popular. We live only a few miles from one another in the heart of the Bible Belt. Her opinions on many topics—the Bible, God, church, social justice, homosexuality, etc—are opinions that I hear often from countless friends in our age group.

I recently read her article for CNN, “Why Millennials Are Leaving The Church.” If you haven’t read it yet, click here.

Rachel said she’s 32. I’m 34, so we were both raised on Saturday morning cartoons, cordless phones with extendable 4-foot antennas, and Pop Rocks and Coke (they don’t kill you!). She wrote that although she has one foot in Generation X, she tends to side with Millennials on church stuff. On some topics, I could very easily say the same.

I liked her article. She’s analyzing the dilemma quite well as she often does. My dilemma has nothing to do with what she wrote. The problem is I’ve heard this argument countless times over the last several years.

Everybody has a different response and reason as to why our generation and those after us are leaving the church. They typically all point to what’s wrong with the church. It’s not enough Jesus—it’s too much Jesus—it’s not enough holiness—it’s too much holiness—it’s not enough justice—it’s too much justice.

I get the concerns with church in general. But I’d like to offer the flip-side of this coin. If the church isn’t what we want it to be, it’s not all the church’s fault; at least part of it is our fault. We can’t talk about the church as if it’s some abstract entity disconnected from us. We are the church.

And here’s the truth: The church isn’t perfect. It’s never been perfect. It never will be perfect. So imperfections within the church simply aren’t a good excuse for anyone to leave. But we leave with our complaints as if we aren’t part of the problem.

We’re just a tad bit spoiled. We tend to want everything handed to us. We want change, but it seems many of us don’t want the work that comes with implementing change, so we bounce around hoping to eventually land in some magical realm where the Pew Fairy has already done all the work to make church exactly what we think it should be.

I hate to pop your balloon, but the Pew Fairy doesn’t exist.

I’ve said it before, and I’ll say it again: if you want to bring about change in the church, you can’t do it from the outside looking in. Those of us who are walking away aren’t helping to fix anything. I’d like to see a few of us suck it up, stop whining about everything that’s wrong, and begin working to implement the change we’re calling for.

We’re so quick to walk, but when will we get plugged in and become leaders, pastors, teachers, board members, ushers, singers, and start actually being a part of something so we can help make it better?!?!?

Perhaps we’re just content to keep complaining about it. Perhaps we don’t really want it to be better because then we wouldn’t be able to take a stand against it and we’d have to actually start attending. We’d be forced to commit.

I know church isn’t perfect. I get the arguments. I understand the frustrations. I have the exact same ones! But I’m convinced that getting out is not the best option. I’m so convinced of this that I work at a denomination’s international headquarters.

I believe in the Church. I see her with a bright future. I see her speaking into the culture. I see her reaching all generations and age levels. I see her making a difference, reaching the lost, helping Christians mature, and connecting believers to God and one another. She’s not there yet, but if the next generation simply bails, she’ll never get there.

I am the church. You are the church. If there’s a problem with the church, there’s a problem with us. As long as we continue to act like outsiders looking in, change will never come. So are you in or are you out?

Revolutions have never been started by people on the sidelines.

KEEP READING!
5 Millennial Challenges: a response to Rachel Held Evans, p. 2
 
Here’s another post that’s extremely relevant to this topic:
5 Reasons I Haven’t Left the Church
 

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